Prevent becoming obsessed with others: You will only obsess over the things you lack in your life.

I’m talking specifically people here. The biggest part of obsession will always be about lack; then other things will follow. For example, if you meet someone whom you want to become your victim; you realise it’s because they have something you want, or you claim you want them.

Why? because they somehow complete you (your lack[s]). So this is how you become obsess proof: fulfil every single lack you have, and be completely independent. You won’t become obsessed–they will. Become their lack, and their completion.